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Most women I want to meet — single mothers my age — have older children. I can get to know dates online before we go out for dinner.
I’m starting my career again and all my energy goes into work and my son. A seemingly sensible saleswoman I contacted last November sent me a picture of herself in a gold bikini.
When I wasn’t ignored, it often felt as if I were on a production line.
One woman I met in a bar early on claimed haughtily that she’d been out with a man called Mike the day before and was meeting another called Steve the following day. One 45-year-old sent me a picture of herself six months ago posing stark naked in bed.
Incensed, I walked up to her and roared ‘You’re not tall and thin! I stated clearly on my profile ‘my past is part of me’ because Christabel and I remain great friends. My longest relationship was with Alison, a 50-something financial broker I met online in July 2010.Unsurprisingly, as we left she said we didn’t click. My favourite date was with a 39-year-old teacher and fellow single mother. Yet we didn’t have sex — perversely, weeks of emailing had led to over-familiarity and, by the time, we met we’d formed too much of a friendship to take it further.